Never stops

Sometimes in life a person is going to try and come down on you emotionally.
If you don't give them the opportunity by acknowledging they're emotion, then they might try a different approach due to a feeling that came over them after there first approach, or push for emotional satisfaction of the original degree.
This cycle is amplified by a ratio. A ratio which depends on the conditioning the mind in question has had, and the amount of approval you give that conditioning. When you have had success not reacting to a persons emotional output, you have now unlocked a new question. Has this mind made the conscious realization that you aren't reacting because this isn't necessary (unlikely). Or, have they decided to get more emotions involved and defend their pride for 'what they know'.
Pride for 'what we know' tends to be outstanding in regards to typical minds 'conditioning'. The 'what we know' is based on past success, or installed by guardians/idles that show beneficial outcomes of this 'what we know'. Most of this pride for what we know breeds; impatience, greed, jealousy,negativenegativenegative. And only more ingrained pride when solidified by positive emotional experiences. That, when can't be satisfied turns into pessimistic justifications.
Now, this ratio is ultimately undefinable without a highly refined sense of intuition, or a complete psyche analysis. A persons mind can be different from every angle to every person, because its the interaction between the two completely different minds that is unique to only those minds.
But, what you can expect from a person that continues down the path of emotion is a boiling point. This is where the ratio would come in to play a part in telling you when that will happen. But, like what was said, The interactions between the minds is unique. Also, the circumstance of those two minds is constantly unique due to natural chaos which can not be forecast. The situation can always take a turn.
When the boiling point occurs that is when either you're a piece of shit, or the emotional is a piece of shit. This can also cross the threshold between: you(shit), me(shit) throughout the over-boiling procedure.(jokes from the eyes of a pessimist)
The point: If all this emotional interaction could take a back seat, people could flourish in there community and homes.

Evocative Interaction

If you have ever hit a 'lull' in your entirety, you will understand what it means to have very little identity. When you have got nobody emphasizing your up's and down's it can be depressing to the conditioned mind.
When I say conditioned mind, I am talking about the mind you have created since you were born. The mind that tells you what is good and what is bad, based on the feelings it creates.
But, in due time you may realize that you have a flexible piece of software running in your head that has been programmed a certain way. It also has the potential of being re-programmed.
So, who is stopping you from taking such a realization and acting upon it in whatever way you choose?
You do have the ability to sculpt your mind into whatever you feel it should be. This 'should' is the dangerous part. You can change it based on the situation at hand and be successful to whatever degree you choose. Or, you can use it to change the situation or create a new situation, leaving the old one behind.
The ability to control ones 'personality' is a superhuman type power. If you can become so aware and so conscious that you know how you are affecting people, then you can have whatever you choose.
The next step to doing this is realizing the consequence that action brings. Sometimes you can't know whats going to happen because you have never done it.
Sometimes you can't know whats going to happen even if you did do it in the past.
So, when you start to control your personality and manipulate the world around you, what becomes of it?
Depending on your intentions you could have unlocked a great ability.
I believe it is possible to live in a tent in the woods, cooking on a campfire, bathing in a river, and go to work in the morning to a multi-billion dollar corporation and sit at your desk as CEO. In the afternoon you may choose to take the zip line that is anchored from the roof to the 24Hr. Wall greens and pick up a 12 pack of soda's for the LAN party you will be attending on the upcoming evening.

Goodbye and Hello

i took it very literally
when i had finally identified what was troubling me, sometimes i have found that the fight i put up against this force is overkill and my world begins to suffer again.
when it occurred that the pain was only as real as was thought, well, where is the control?
a pessimist troubled by society, nothing would fade and its all i could see.
bars in my face, a burnt bitter taste.
coaxed out the wretch eventually
the devil had took me and told me that he
would make me a man if i'd do like he wanted
get him some money and make sure its flaunted
tell all the girls what you've got and who bought it
he promised he'd make me happy IF i did this
but ever so slowly he had ME grant HIS wish
the control that he took was nothing when compared
to the light thato, emotions, enlightenment, god, identity, mind, philosophy, poem, religion brought me back to where i was scared
and when i awoke it was cold, but i blinked
and all of a sudden i could see, i could think
nothing around me was mine anymore
and nothing could leave and nothing was sore
it's all as it was when i first had embarked
on my journey to be what i'd seen in my heart
no longer is this heart black with the sin
of an external head game one that you can't win
but don't be mistaken he's there everyday
he's there when your sleeping and when you're awake
yea, sometimes we visit, but he's not here that often
i bet you i'll bring him with me to my coffin
but now that i know that he's there all the time
he's merely a riddle outwitted by rhyme.